no how is it over?の英語

Ever since I started to sleep on the hand of my new wife as a pillow, soft as young grass/ It is no longer possible to be separated from her over night/ How could I, when there is not a speck of hate in my heart (Wakakusa no niitamakura o makisomete yo o ya hedateru nikuku aranakuni: vol.11; no.2542).発音を聞く 例文帳に追加

若草乃新手枕乎巻始而夜哉将間二八十一不在國（わかくさの　にひたまくらを　まきそめて　よをやへだてる　にくくあらなくに　巻十一　2542番） - Wikipedia日英京都関連文書対訳コーパス

The title comes from the waka poems exchanged between Gen no Naishinosuke and Hikaru Genji: 'Alas, how fickle it is! For all my having been waiting for this festival, which is said to have a miraculous virtue, thinking that it would be the day to meet you, without knowing someone else had already seen you with the raising hollyhock over her hand.' and 'You held up the hollyhock of the day of meeting not only to see me but also as many as eighty clans, didn't you? Isn't it fickle enough to feel unpleasant?'.発音を聞く 例文帳に追加

巻名は光源氏と源典侍の歌「はかなしや人のかざせるあふひゆえ神のゆるしのけふを待ちける」および「かざしける心ぞあだに思ほゆる八十氏人になべてあふひを」に由来する。 - Wikipedia日英京都関連文書対訳コーパス